In a quest to keep me occupied, a result of the loss of my XYL, my kids are in overdrive finding things for us to do as a family. We have an upcoming short trip, and my #2 son suggested a place to go recommended to him by a close friend of his who is Jewish. It really was not necessary to mention his friend's ethnicity or religion but that was key to his next statement. My son's follow on was to share a saying from his friend which is as follows: You know that Italians are Jews with better food . I was shocked to hear that as I have always believed and instilled in my kids that we look at all individuals as contributors while being blind about race, religion, color, creed and/or beliefs. But then I thought about it and realized that there likely is more to that statement than meets the eye. A short diversion here about accomplishments of Italians in general. Look at the art, science, technology and of course the women (Loren, Lollobrigida and of course PM Giorgia Meloni). PM...
Turkey Day can be stressful! It is a time where if cooking at home can be a huge problem on how do you make all the food get done on time and cooked just right? But that is not the real stress as this year is complicated by politics. The host discovers the cost of the meal as compared to last year (for the same meal) costs 25% more and so that is significant. Then there are those family members who support a certain party to the extent they wear their red caps during the meal. This year the hosts had to actually prepare a strategy paper on a list of subjects that could be discussed without the meal ending up in a full-fledged food fight. Boy that sure ended up being a small list. The other tight wire act was the seating to ensure that those who were at war last year are seated apart from those that fought last year. The family grace at the meal initiation which in itself can be politically charged is now a simple: Thank you and let's eat. Here are some suggestions for surviv...